Seattle metro

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130 unmarried men per 100 women at 25–34, the widest gap of 10 metros. Better odds for single women, worse for single men.

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The widest gender gap on the list

Seattle has more unmarried men per woman than any other metro we compare: 130 per 100 at 25–34 and 123 at 35–44. Across everyone aged 25–44 that's about 75,112 more single men than women in the metro.

Census data doesn't say why. A likely factor is the tech workforce: men hold most tech jobs, and the region's big employers include Amazon and Microsoft. Median earnings are $75.1k for men and $52.5k for women, a wider gap than in most of the other metros.

Women here who want a man earning $100k have many more to choose from: 37.6% of men with earnings clear that bar. Men looking for a woman at the same income will find far fewer, since just 23.1% of women do.

Women also marry earlier here than in most big coastal metros: only 54% of women aged 25–34 are unmarried, against 67.6% in Los Angeles. So for a man, local odds may be tougher than the calculator shows, since it uses national single rates.

Seattle's gap in the data

SeattleUS
Men 25–34, unmarried64.7%64.5%
Women 25–34, unmarried54%56.2%
Men 35–44, unmarried35.4%38%
Women 35–44, unmarried30.9%35.7%
Men per 100 women, 25–34130118
Men per 100 women, 35–44123108
Median earnings, men$75,082$53,015
Median earnings, women$52,539$39,325
Men at $100k+37.6%22.6%
Women at $100k+23.1%12.5%
Men with a degree46.5%34.4%
Women with a degree48%36.9%

Seattle-Tacoma-Bellevue, WA Metro Area, ACS 2020–2024. How we define these.

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    Who's left for each side in Seattle

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    Men28–386′0″+, $150k+2,92097
    Women27–37degree62,7005
    Women30–40$100k+, non-smoker19,30015

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    Questions people ask

    Is Seattle a good place for single women?

    By the numbers it's one of the most favorable: 130 unmarried men per 100 women at 25–34, and 37.6% of men with earnings make $100k+.

    Why are there more single men in Seattle?

    Census data doesn't give the reason. A large tech workforce, where men are the majority, is a likely part of it, along with women here marrying somewhat earlier.

    How many men in Seattle earn over $100k?

    37.6% of men with earnings in the metro, against 22.6% nationally. Median earnings for men are $75.1k.

    What area does the Seattle data cover?

    The Seattle-Tacoma-Bellevue metro area, about 4.1 million people.