New York metro

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Nearly 3 million unmarried people aged 25–44, split almost evenly between men and women.

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The metro stretches from the five boroughs to Newark, Jersey City and Long Island. It has 19.8 million residents, including about 1,513,151 unmarried men aged 25–44.

At 25–34 there are 108 unmarried men for every 100 unmarried women, the lowest ratio of the ten metros we compare (US: 118). By 35–44 it's 102.

21.2% of women with earnings make $100k or more, against 12.5% nationally, and 45.1% of women hold a bachelor's degree. For a woman earning that much, only 31.2% of men with earnings make six figures too.

Ask for a man aged 28–38, at least 6′0″, earning $150k or more, and the calculator finds about 13,100 in the whole metro. That's 1 in 105 men that age.

New York against the US

New YorkUS
Men 25–34, unmarried71.3%64.5%
Women 25–34, unmarried65.1%56.2%
Men 35–44, unmarried38.4%38%
Women 35–44, unmarried37.6%35.7%
Men per 100 women, 25–34108118
Men per 100 women, 35–44102108
Median earnings, men$62,272$53,015
Median earnings, women$48,553$39,325
Men at $100k+31.2%22.6%
Women at $100k+21.2%12.5%
Men with a degree43.1%34.4%
Women with a degree45.1%36.9%

New York-Newark-Jersey City, NY-NJ Metro Area, ACS 2020–2024. How we define these.

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    What three wish lists leave in New York

    Looking forAgeStandardsAbout1 in
    Men28–386′0″+, $150k+13,100105
    Women27–37$100k+, degree48,50028
    Men32–425′10″+, $100k+, degree, non-smoker21,10065

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    Questions people ask

    Are there more single men or women in New York?

    Among 25–34 year olds there are slightly more unmarried men: 108 per 100 women. At 35–44 it's nearly even at 102 per 100. That's closer to balanced than any other big metro we compare.

    How many men in New York earn $100k or more?

    31.2% of men with earnings in the New York metro, compared with 22.6% nationally. Median earnings are $62.3k for men and $48.6k for women. These cover all ages.

    How many men in NYC are 6 feet and earn six figures?

    Using the calculator's assumptions, about 25,400 single men aged 28–38 in the metro are 6′0″ or taller and earn $100k+. Raising income to $150k cuts that to about 13,100.

    Does this count only New York City?

    No. Census figures cover the whole metro area, New York-Newark-Jersey City, which includes parts of New Jersey and Long Island. The five boroughs alone would be smaller.